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All Things Are Lawful, But Not All Things Are Helpful
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Text: 1 Corinthians 6:12
 
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Women Preaching – Is It Biblical? 

EZER KENEGDO - The Primary Role of a Wife

Introduction

The question of whether women should preach or lead in ministry has long been debated within the Christian community. From a biblical and contextual standpoint, this is not merely about citing isolated verses or holding to tradition, but about understanding the cultural background of Scripture and the overarching story of God's work through His people.

 

Biblical Texts That Seem to Restrict Women

Two key New Testament passages are frequently cited to restrict women from teaching or having authority in the church:

  • 1 Timothy 2:12 – “I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man; she must be quiet.”
  • 1 Corinthians 14:34–35 – “Women should remain silent in the churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the law says.”

These passages were written within a Greco-Roman and Jewish patriarchal culture, where women had limited public roles, especially in religious spaces. Paul’s letters often addressed specific issues in specific churches—such as disorder, false teaching, or social dynamics—not necessarily giving universal commands for all churches in all times.

 

Women in Leadership Throughout the Bible

Despite these texts, the Bible presents numerous examples of women who led, taught, and proclaimed God's Word:

  • Deborah (Judges 4–5) – A prophetess and judge who led Israel.
  • Priscilla (Acts 18:26) – Taught Apollos alongside her husband Aquila.
  • Phoebe (Romans 16:1–2) – Described by Paul as a deacon and a benefactor of many.
  • Mary Magdalene (John 20:17–18) – The first to proclaim the risen Christ.
  • Junia (Romans 16:7) – Noted as “outstanding among the apostles.”
  • Philip’s daughters (Acts 21:9) – Four unmarried prophetesses.

These examples affirm that women were not on the sidelines of God’s mission but were active participants in His work.

 

Spiritual Gifts and Equality in the Church

  • Joel 2:28–29 / Acts 2:17–18 – “Your sons and daughters will prophesy… even on my servants, both men and women, I will pour out my Spirit.”
  • Galatians 3:28 – “There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.”

These verses affirm the spiritual equality of all believers and the Spirit’s gifts being distributed without regard to gender.

 

Interpreting Scripture with Wisdom

Different Christian traditions interpret these Scriptures differently. Some view Paul’s restrictions as culturally specific to the churches of his time. Others hold a complementarian position, where men and women are equal in value but have distinct roles.

However, many churches today affirm that God calls and equips both men and women to teach, lead, and serve—not in defiance of Scripture, but in faithfulness to its full message and in alignment with the leading of the Holy Spirit.

 

How 1 Corinthians 6:12 Connects to This Discussion

“All things are lawful for me,” but not all things are helpful. “All things are lawful for me,” but I will not be dominated by anything. —1 Corinthians 6:12 (ESV)

This verse was Paul’s response to a Corinthian mindset that abused Christian liberty. They were saying, “everything is permissible,” but Paul pushes deeper: freedom in Christ must be governed by what is beneficial, edifying, and self-controlled.

This principle is relevant to the question of women preaching and leading in the church.

 

Discernment Over Permission

The debate is not only “Is it allowed?” but “Is it wise? Is it helpful? Does it build up the body of Christ?” Paul invites the church to consider not just freedom, but wisdom, spiritual benefit, and unity.

 

For Churches That Affirm Women in Ministry

This verse reminds us to ensure that freedom leads to fruitfulness—that women are raised up with sound doctrine, humility, and service to the body, not self-promotion.

 

For Churches That Are Cautious or Restrictive

It challenges those who may over-restrict to ask: Are we hindering the Spirit’s work by not affirming what God is doing through women?

 

For Women Who Feel Called

This verse calls for humility and discernment: “Even if I can, is this the right time and way?” It's about walking wisely in one's calling, with reverence for God's order and sensitivity to the Spirit.

 

Conclusion

1 Corinthians 6:12 reminds believers that Christian liberty is not the final measure—love, edification, and spiritual wisdom are. When applied to the issue of women preaching and leadership, it encourages believers and churches to move beyond surface-level debates and into Spirit-led discernment, Scriptural depth, and grace-filled application.

 

📖 The First “Not Good” and God’s Design for Woman

In Genesis 1, everything God creates is declared “good.” But in Genesis 2:18, we encounter the Bible’s first “not good”: “It is not good that the man should be alone.”

This isn’t about sin or failure. It’s about the absence of fellowship and covenant partnership. So God creates woman — not from the dust like Adam, but from his side — and calls her ezer kenegdo.

That Hebrew phrase means “a helper corresponding to him.” But “helper” doesn’t mean assistant or inferior. The word ezer is used repeatedly for God Himself in the Old Testament (see Psalm 121:2: “My help comes from the Lord”). It speaks of strength, protection, and rescue.

So from the beginning, woman was created as a powerful, face-to-face counterpart — not behind the man, not beneath him, but beside him. She reflects something of God’s own nature — and prefigures the Church, the Bride of Christ, who also came from the side of the Second Adam.

Before she was wife, mother, or minister, she was strength. She was God’s answer to the first “not good.” And when she speaks with grace, leads with wisdom, or teaches in truth — she walks in the image of the One who helps.